When Women Are Worshipped
Blessings unto the Daughters of Tzyon this beautiful and blessed day, HaleluYah!!!
I pray that we will gain much insight into this topic. First, from the perspective of the type of men who worship women, then ways women allow themselves to be worshipped, and also the consequences of men who worship women in our society and the world at large. I know there may be some sisters who are saying to themselves, “Well I know my Husband don’t worship me, he just loves me, he gives me his all, and that is what he is supposed to do!” Yet are you sure your definition of love is not a corrupted one that supersedes how YAHWAH originally desired for love to be expressed between a man a woman?
Though men who worship women certainly have their own issues, our primaries focus is to look at OUR behavior in facilitating them to create deities in us. For example, right now, many of us may have husbands who are striving to dedicate more time to YAHWAH, whether it be in personal study, leading their families, or in congregational leadership. Some brothers may see it a conflict to continue working long hours, at demanding jobs, just so they can maintain a certain “lifestyle”, that nine times out of ten, the woman is accustomed to living. With her subtle and crafty ways, she may try to give the appearance that if that “lifestyle” is not maintained, that brother is not doing his “YAHWAH ordained duty” of providing for the family, when all the while, she is just concerned with him maintaining her worldly comforts. Now, out of weakness or guilt, that brother sacrifices his growing relationship with YAHWAH, to appease his wife. That brother may still hold the title of “Provider”, but he is only really enjoying the status of a “servant”, for now that brother has become his wife’s servant instead of him being the servant of YAHWAH. His "wife" has become his "Elohym/God" instead of YAHWAH. You have just witnessed a man who is now guilty of committing idolatry, and worst, a woman who now wants to take the place of a brother’s primary focus and attention. She wants to be in the place of YAH in that brother’s life! She wants to be his Elohym and thus desires His Worship!
You see my sisters, yes our husbands are to love us deeply like their own bodies, but they cannot love us to the point where they are now hearkening to our voice over YAH. Haven't we've seen enough of this in Scripture (Adam and Khawah/Eve, Samson and Delylah, King Solomon and his many wives)? They cannot love us so much that their relationship with YAHWAH takes a back seat. We so dearly want to hear those sweet words from them, “You are my everything”, “I love you more than anything in this world”, “I can’t live without you baby”. Even if we may not want to hear those words (sounds to mushy for some of us) many of us nonetheless want the actions of our husbands to reflect it! What kind of love is that really? That sounds like an all encompassing, all consuming love that is suppose to belong exclusively to YAHWAH!
Debarym/Deuteronomy 13:11 “And it shall be that if you diligently obey my commands which I command you today, to love YAHWAH your Elohym and to serve Him with all your heart and with all your being…
Are any of your sisters familiar with the “Trickle Down Theory?” This is a concept developed on how to increase jobs in economically underdeveloped urban areas. Basically the theory advocates keeping corporations or “Big Business” in existence so that the profits of those business would eventually lead to the development of other “smaller jobs”, then to the rise of other business avenues, that would eventually create employment to those in need. Basically it was saying that the money starts at the “top” and “trickles down” to the “bottom”. I am not an advocate for it politically, but I liken this to a brother’s relationship with YAHWAH.
You see, when a brother is loving and serving YAHWAH with all his heart, all his mind, and all his strength, and walking in obedience as Yahoshua did, then the love that he is already expressing for YAH starts to "overflow", and then it is likeYAH says to him, “Take some of this love you have first showed to me, and now let it be expressed righteously to and in your wife and your children.” My sisters, a brother’s love for us is only supposed to be a by-product of the love he is already expressing towards YAH! We along with our children, are supposed to be the in the order of YAH of a brother’s love. First it is YAH, Yahoshua, then us and the children! That is the order! That is how love is too “trickle down” to us. Yet somehow we were taught the exact opposite. We were taught that we are at the epicenter of all things, and while a man that serves YAH is “good” he must keep HIM in his box at our expense!
My sisters, do we realize how crucial our role is in the relationship our husbands have with YAHWAH? Only a true “VIW”, who knows and respects the order of YAHWAH and understands that her husband was a “Son of YAH” long before he was her husband, is willingly to keep herself in check, and not allow herself to be used by the Adversary to bring her husband to bowing down to her knees! For once her husband’s eyes are off YAHWAH and fixated upon her, Satan now can slip in! If only sisters knew by having their husbands worship them they even put their children at risk, for their protective “covering” is now gone, and that man who would have had his attention on YAH on how to protect and lead his family is off serving False Elohym…. aka YOU!
Sisters, we can have tremendous influence over our husbands for the good and the bad. Sometimes even the righteous love our husbands have for us can be exploited. Sometimes it is not always the weak and cowardly man that begins to worship his wife.
Sometimes the truly strong brother in YAHWAH, in his earnest desire to provide for his family, and please his wife, can start to veer off. That is when we as YAH fearing women must seek to use wisdom by lovingly, and humbly, readjusting our husband’s sight back upon YAHWAH, his Elohym! Sometimes we have to say to our husbands, “I love the efforts you are making to provide for me, I appreciate all the things you can buy me by working so hard, but if it is keeping you from fully serving YAH, you don’t have to do this to prove to me you love me, when I see you serving YAHWAH and leading our family, you are demonstrating your love for me that way.”
But how many sisters are actually willingly to say this and actually mean it???????????????
We are going to begin with a excerpt from a lesson written by Moreh Tzyd'kee'Yahu. As you read it, keep in mind that “type” of man and his characteristics that contributed to his downfall. Do we find ourselves admiring “weak” attributes in men because we feel they are easier to let us “rule” over them? These brothers were trying to serve YAHWAH, but got snared in the “trap” of setting women up on the altars of their hearts.
Beloved sisters, let us not be guilty of strengthening our husbands hands to do this wickedness all because "we" want to be worshipped and "we" want to be number 1 in his life!
On that note...
WHEN WOMEN ARE WORSHIPPED
It must first be stated that men worship women because they are empty, vulnerable, and lack self-esteem. These women-worshippers are usually trying to feel a void in their lives due to a lack of being shown proper attention by their mothers. It is important for women to know and understand that men that worship women are weak, cowardly, and spineless. When men worship women they become jealous, envious, and possessive, due to their insecurities about themselves. When men worship women they focus completely and entirely on the woman or women that they are worshipping. And guess what, Satan loves it when men worship women instead of YAH.
“And YAHWAH Elohim commanded the man, saying, of every tree of the garden you may freely eat: but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, you shall not eat of it: for in the day that you eat thereof you shall surely die.” - Gen 2:16-17 [Emphasis mine] KJV
“And unto Adam he said, because you have hearkened unto the voice of your wife, and has eaten of the tree, of which I commanded you, saying, you shall not eat it: cursed is the ground for your sake; in sorrow shall you eat of it all the days of your life; thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to you; and you shall eat the herb of the field: in the sweat of your face shall you eat bread, till you return unto the ground; for out of it was you taken: for dust you are, and unto dust shall you return.” - Gen 3:16-19 [Emphasis mine] KJV
So as you can see my dear sisters, Adam was the first man to worship a woman. Adam worshipped his wife. Sisters, are you allowing your husbands to worship you? If so, YAH will deal with you!
“And Dinah the daughter of Leah, which she bare unto Ya’aqob, went out to see the daughters of the land. And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defiled her.” - Gen 34:1-3 [Emphasis mine] KJV
So as you can see my dear sisters, Shechem worshipped Dinah to the point of rape.
2Sa 13:10 And Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the bedroom, that I eat from your hand.” And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them to Amnon her brother in the bedroom.
2Sa 13:11 And she brought them to him to eat, and he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister.”
2Sa 13:12 And she answered him, “No, my brother, do not humble me, for it is not done so in Yisrael. Do not do this wickedness!
2Sa 13:13 “And I, where could I take my shame? And you – you would be like one of the fools in Yisrael. And now, please speak to the king, for he would not withhold me from you.”
2Sa 13:14 But he would not listen to her voice, and being stronger than she, he humbled her and lay with her. [The Scriptures]
So as you can see my dear sisters Tamar was worshipped by Amnon. Amnon worshipped Tamar to the point of rape. Amnon was guilty of worshipping his sister Tamar instead of worshipping YAH.
“And Yisrael abode in Shittim, and the people began to commit whoredom with the daughters of Moab. And they called the people unto the sacrifices of their elohim: and the people did eat, and bowed down to their elohim. And Yisrael joined himself to Baal-peor: and the anger of YAHWAH was kindled against Yisrael.” - Num 25:1-3 [Emphasis mine] KJV
So as you can see my dear sisters, the men of Yisrael chose to worship the daughters of Moab instead of worshipping YAH.
Jdg 16:18 And Delilah saw that he had made known to her all his heart, and she sent and called for the princes of the Philistines, saying, “Come up once more, for he has made known to me all his heart.” So the princes of the Philistines came up to her and brought the money in their hand.
Jdg 16:19 And she made him sleep on her knees, and called for a man and shaved off the seven locks of his head. Thus she began to humble him, and his strength left him.
Jdg 16:20 And she said, “The Philistines are upon you, Shimshon!” And he awoke from his sleep, and said, “Let me go out as before, at other times, and shake myself loose!” But he did not know that YAHWAH had turned aside from him.
Jdg 16:21 So the Philistines took him and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Azzah, and bound him with bronze shackles. And he became a grinder in the prison. [The Scriptures]
So as you can see my dear sisters, Shimshon (Samson) gave the strength that YAH had gave him to a woman. My dear sisters, never allow a man to give you the strength that YAH has rightfully given him.
2Sa 11:1 And it came to be at the turn of the year, at the time kings go out to battle, that Dawid sent Yahoab and his servants with him, and all Yisrael, and they destroyed the children of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But Dawid remained at Yerushalayim.
2Sa 11:2 And it came to be, at evening time, that Dawid rose up from his bed and walked about on the roof of the king’s house. And from the roof he saw a woman bathing, and the woman was very good to look at.
2Sa 11:3 And Dawid sent and asked about the woman, and one said, “Is this not Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriyahu the Hittite?”
2Sa 11:4 And Dawid sent messengers, to fetch her. And she came to him, and he lay with her – for she was cleansing herself from her uncleanness – and she returned to her house.
2Sa 11:5 And the woman conceived, and sent and informed Dawid, and said, “I am pregnant.” [The Scriptures]
So as you can see my dear sisters, instead of worshipping YAH by keeping YAH’S commandment, Dawid (David) chose to worship Bathsheba by committing adultery with her.
1Ki 11:1 And King Shlomo loved many foreign women in addition to the daughter of Pharaoh: Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Zidonian, and Hittite women;
1Ki 11:2 from the nations of whom YAHWAH had said to the children of Yisrael, “You do not go into them, and they do not go into you, for they shall certainly turn away your hearts after their mighty ones.” Shlomo clung to these in love.
1Ki 11:3 And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines. And his wives turned away his heart.
1Ki 11:4 And it came to be, when Shlomo was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other mighty ones. And his heart was not perfect with YAHWAH his Elohim, as was the heart of his father Dawid.
1Ki 11:5 And Shlomo went after Ashtoreth the mighty one of the Zidonians, and after Milkom the abomination of the Ammonites.
1Ki 11:6 Thus Shlomo did evil in the eyes of YAHWAH, and did not follow YAHWAH completely, like his father Dawid.
1Ki 11:7 Then Shlomo built a high place for Kemosh the abomination of Moab, on the hill that is east of Yerushalayim, and for Molek the abomination of the children of Ammon.
1Ki 11:8 And so he did for all his foreign wives, who burned incense and slaughtered to their mighty ones. [The Scriptures]
So as you can see my dear sisters, Shlomo (Solomon) in all his great wisdom still allowed himself to worship a women’s vagina. Do not allow a man to worship your vagina, my sisters! And if a man does worship your vagina then know he’s an idolater.
So, what do you think sisters? Do you still desire the “types” of men that worship us? Let’s take a look at our abba Adam. He would be considered a hard working man by today’s standards. He had to tend the garden, name the animals, he put in much more that a 9 t0 5. But he was weak in not standing up for YAHWAH when it came to his wife Khawah/Eve. So what happened? He got fired from his job in the Garden of Eden, and therefore evicted from the beautiful "Home” YAHWAH put him and his wife in, and brought all of mankind down with him, all because he "listened to the voice of his wife instead of listening and adhering to the voice of his Elohym, YAHWAH!"
Sisters, if you desire a man that can only “provide” for you, yet is not strong enough do what is right in the sight of YAHWAH, regardless of what you say, you desire Worship! And truthfully speaking, NO true woman of YAH will ever desire her husband's attention of her to supercede that of YAHWAH...be clear!
Look at Shym'shon/Samson. For all his physical strength, he was not strong enough to keep hidden his source of power. Do we desire men that we feel all we have to do is nag and beg for something long enough and they will "soften up" to us? If our husbands don’t yield to our "requests", do we seek to condemn and accuse them for their lack of love for us...well, do we?
1Ki 16:29 In the thirty-eighth year of Asa king of Yehudah, Akhab son of Omri became king over Yisrael. And Akhab son of Omri reigned over Yisrael in Shomron twenty-two years.
1Ki 16:30 And Akhab son of Omri did evil in the eyes of YAHWAH, more than all those before him.
1Ki 16:31 And it came to be, as though it had been a light matter for him to walk in the sins of Yarabam son of Nebat, that he took as wife Ezebel the daughter of Etbaal, king of the Zidonians. And he went and served Baal and bowed himself to it,
1Ki 16:32 and raised up an altar for Baal in the house of Baal, which he had built in Shomron. [The Scriptures]
So as you can see my dear sisters, King Akhab loved his wife Ezebel more than he loved YAH. Do not allow a man to love you more than YAH, my dear sisters!
Sistahs, as women we hold a special kind of influence in the lives of men that we can use to encourage them in YAHWAH or to further push them into the waiting arms of the adversary in their pursuit of us. There are many of sistahs out here, possibly those that are reading this 
(don't start trippin'), whose husbands "idolize/worship" you!!! Now Akhot AnaYah, what do you mean by "idolize/worship" us? What I mean and what I'm saying is that a lot of women have a hold (influence) on/over men. If our men are weak or have that "Ahab/Akhab" syndrome going on, then you know that we are controlling everything, from what goes on in the house, the finances, the children, etc. There are brothas out here, who let their wives run everything including *them*, in order to keep their relationship in tacked. To keep peace, (which is really a "false" peace). They may have done something wrong before in the relationship which probably caused the relationship to come to an end -- almost. So in order to make up for his mistake(s), it is held over his head by the wife, and now he is at the wife's beck and call!!! So we are given license by him to run "amuck"! The brotha is not worshipping YAHWAH anymore, he is worshipping us!!! And you really want to know the foul part about it, is that we enjoy it that way! 
(don't start trippin'), whose husbands "idolize/worship" you!!! Now Akhot AnaYah, what do you mean by "idolize/worship" us? What I mean and what I'm saying is that a lot of women have a hold (influence) on/over men. If our men are weak or have that "Ahab/Akhab" syndrome going on, then you know that we are controlling everything, from what goes on in the house, the finances, the children, etc. There are brothas out here, who let their wives run everything including *them*, in order to keep their relationship in tacked. To keep peace, (which is really a "false" peace). They may have done something wrong before in the relationship which probably caused the relationship to come to an end -- almost. So in order to make up for his mistake(s), it is held over his head by the wife, and now he is at the wife's beck and call!!! So we are given license by him to run "amuck"! The brotha is not worshipping YAHWAH anymore, he is worshipping us!!! And you really want to know the foul part about it, is that we enjoy it that way! But then we need to ask ourselves, what kind of women are we? The answer shouldn't be to far off!!!
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. once said, "A man can't ride your back, unless it is bent"! I say to the brothas out there, "straighten up, and get that hump out/off yo' back"!
All through our history, men have put the woman in YAHWAH's position, from our fathers Adahm with Khawah, Sheem'shon/Samson with Deleelah, Melek Shlomo/King Solomon and "all" his wives, Herod with Herodias. And everytime this was done, it brought disaster!!! YAHWAH says "you shall have no Elohym after Me" (correct translation from the hebrew).
In a past lesson, we spoke on the "Eezehbel/Jezebel Spirit", but there is something that I forgot to mention in that lesson. Did you know that there are two types of "Eezehbel Spirits"? The high-profile type is generally gregarious, outspoken and highly visible. She is often seen as the "woman who wears the pants in the family". Ahhh, but the low-profile type is just that -- generally soft-spoken, giving the illusion of being solicitous, motherly, protective, even very submissive. A low-profile type may be the "MOST DANGEROUS", as she is the most difficult to discern and relies heavily on manipulation for her power, but it is extremely subtle!!! Much of her negtive or manipulative behavior is "behind the scenes", in private where her destructive work is done, (i.e., in the bedroom, far from the ears of others, also it can be in the stare of her "eyes", that gets her messages across without others even knowing it), but her husband "Ahab/Akhab", knows it. And he's busy doing the "Step'n Fetch-it" piece and bowing to his elohym who happens to be his "wife", now this is WICKED!!! Is any of this hittin' home for some of us? If this profile fits any of us, we need to STOP CLOWNIN'!!!
A true woman of YAHWAH will never, ever allow her husband to idolize/worship her. She will do everything that she can to keep his eyes on YAH, where they rightfully belong! She will know that she comes "SECOND", and YAHWAH comes "FIRST", and she won't have a problem with it either! Why won't she have a problem with it, because she knows the order set by YAHWAH! So, if there are any husbands out there that's reading this post along with their wives (and I'm cool with that, because you are the headcovering, and it is your job to protect your wife/family), if your backs are bent, P-L-E-A-S-E straighten up, get rid of that golden calf (your wife), and by this I don't mean to divorce her, I'm saying, set things in their rightful order: YAHWAH, Yahoshua, Man, Wife and child(ren).
A true woman of YAHWAH will never, ever allow her husband to idolize/worship her. She will do everything that she can to keep his eyes on YAH, where they rightfully belong! She will know that she comes "SECOND", and YAHWAH comes "FIRST", and she won't have a problem with it either! Why won't she have a problem with it, because she knows the order set by YAHWAH! So, if there are any husbands out there that's reading this post along with their wives (and I'm cool with that, because you are the headcovering, and it is your job to protect your wife/family), if your backs are bent, P-L-E-A-S-E straighten up, get rid of that golden calf (your wife), and by this I don't mean to divorce her, I'm saying, set things in their rightful order: YAHWAH, Yahoshua, Man, Wife and child(ren). A woman with her head on straight, eyes constantly FOCUSED on the big picture and the greater goal of pleasing YAHWAH, will make sure that she does nothing to hinder her husband's relationship with YAHWAH, but go out her way to ensure that he has the right environment conducive for a healthy relationship with YAHWAH. She has taken the time to ask, search, and meditate on what YAHWAH's idea of a woman's role and place is and strives to make herself fit into His plan for her. She realizes that this is not a lowly calling, and by fulfilling the role He has for her is the only way to acquire the true satisfaction, fulfillment and happiness that a woman's soul longs for.
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